THE FIRST STEP

What do you see emptiness or possibility? Sometimes we are so overwhelmed by what we don’t see or have, we become blind to the actual possibilities right in front of us. There are times in our lives when we need to strip things back so we can actually build the right things up. There are seasons where we may feel we have less but maybe it’s because God doesn’t want to add to what needs to be removed. Old wine doesn’t go in new wineskins and so maybe if you are feeling an emptying then it’s getting you ready for a new kind of filling. 

We all outgrow things and so we must learn where we need to stop clinging on, so we can clear it out. We can keep our life full but sometimes that fullness is now preventing any newness. Don’t be scared of emptiness often God will use it to show His greatness. After all the idea is less of me, more of Him. Which means a lot more things may need to be taken away so that we can do and see God’s better way.

— Charl

Be Kind

In a world where we are told to do and be many things, we need to remind ourselves often what are the main things. Too many times we act, speak, move, decide and leave kind behind. Yet Kindness is king. It changes everything and we can all BE KIND. Raising our kids this is the main thing I want them to remember. Being kind will serve them better than being ambitious, striving for success, being gifted, having popularity. Because the true win in life is when you don’t leave behind your achievements but acts of kindness. 2018 needs more people on a campaign to just be kind. 

So let’s raise kind kids, have kind marriages, be kind friends and lead kind lives and work with a kindness ethos. Let kindness guide your words and actions. It’s not about what people do for you or too you. It’s about the kindness you decide to shine through you. Today maybe stop striving for lots of things and just focus on this one thing. Be kind to yourself, be kind to a world that needs to reminded kindness is a language we can all choose to speak and we all understand. 

— Charl

More Than Anything

NATALIE GRANT

When I recorded this song over 2 years ago, I had no idea how personal these lyrics would become. But God knew all along that He was going to give me the opportunity to live these words, not just sing them. 

Yesterday marked 6 months since my surgery to remove cancer. I’m so grateful to be healthy and whole in my body. But I’m also beyond grateful for the health and healing that’s happening in my soul...learning to seek Hs face, before I seek His hand. Learning to declare His goodness regardless of my outcome. Recognizing once again that it’s not just what He does for me but WHO HE IS. He is the miracle. He is the prize. Jesus more than anything. 


What is your need today? Ask Him for the miracle. He invites us to do so. But don’t have your heart & mind so set on the end of your circumstance that you miss what He wants to do in the middle of your circumstance. Some of you are in the fight of your life and don’t know if you can take another step. I promise what you think may destroy you, can be what delivers you - turning you in to a warrior with a fire nothing and no one can extinguish. 


All that you need, He’s already done. 

Are We There Yet? - MIRACLE IN THE MIDDLE

Excerpt from Miracle in The Middle.

The “Are we there yet” questioning of God may be silent to those around you, but it rarely stops resonating inside of you. It can become a repetitive echo in your soul. It can be evidenced by the change in your demeanor, as your enthusiasm for the journey lessens. Now your ebbing faith causes your once confident stride to be replaced by faltering footsteps. At this point, your own barrage of questions begins toward our Heavenly Father, as you seek assurance that this journey has an end destination in sight. It is often in this void that we think we need to hear God’s voice the most and yet it can seem that it is here that He speaks the least. Just like when we, as parents, choose to not always respond to our children’s demands to stop the vehicle or pacify their boredom. In the same way, God doesn’t always answer us immediately.

If we leave this internal turmoil unaddressed it can quickly intensify from a quiet complaint to a temper tantrum with God. At this point, without intervention, the impatient traveler is tempted to take matters into their own hands, often with disastrous results. We attempt to force what God hasn’t endorsed or prematurely leave the route He has planned for us, thinking we will find a shortcut to a breakthrough by ourselves. (By the way, I have tried the shortcut and my advice is to not take it!)

I have asked God many times Are we there yet? only to find no satisfactory answer to help me decide whether I should persevere or give in. The fact is we are all on a journey from where we are now to where we want to be. And in our eagerness to get there we must remember that God never promised it would be easy. We weren’t given a fast pass to jump the part of the process we like the least. The journey of any dream, plan, and destiny will be filled with many highs and lows; it will take you from mountaintop to valley. The scenery may go from breathtaking to boring, but when we trust God with the process every stage can be useful and instructive.

I have asked God many times Are we there yet? only to find no satisfactory answer to help me decide whether I should persevere or give in. The fact is we are all on a journey from where we are now to where we want to be. And in our eagerness to get there we must remember that God never promised it would be easy. We weren’t given a fast pass to jump the part of the process we like the least. The journey of any dream, plan, and destiny will be filled with many highs and lows; it will take you from mountaintop to valley. The scenery may go from breathtaking to boring, but when we trust God with the process every stage can be useful and instructive.

On my own journey I have met many people who are at the crossroads between their dreams and their current reality. They are confused travelers, disoriented by the season they are in. I have seen weary pastors ready to walk away from their calling, tired of the testing and disillusioned by their progress. I have listened to business leaders share how their frustrations were causing them to derail plans for the future. I have seen others quit projects and downscale their expectations because the journey had brought such disappointment that it corroded confidence and deflated dreams. At these crossroads we have to contend with that inner child in the backseat of our mind who is more inclined to quit than to persevere.

Every journey typically goes through three stages. For the purposes of this book I will call them the beginning, the middle, and the end. The beginning and the end act as the two great bookends to the section we’re referring to as the middle. This middle stage can be short or long, but I have found it is usually longer than we want it to be. Though it has moments when it is exhilarating, it is usually exhausting. The middle is also not very glamorous and, therefore, not something we choose to dwell on. The middle is the Are we there yet? part of our journey and I believe one of the most underestimated stages of our growth. Throughout our time together I want to elevate the middle stage and to ask you to reconsider the power in this place that you may even be resenting. I truly believe that in the middle is where you really find out what is in the middle of you.
 

Reflection: What middle are you currently facing?

 

Dare To Be Still

Dare To Be Still

“But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, ‘Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!’  ‘Martha, Martha,’ the Lord answered, ‘You are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” - Luke 10:40-42

Guard Your Heart

Guard Your Heart

The thing we often neglect is that when we allow our heart to become weary, burdened, and battered, it affects everything we hold in our hands — our relationships, responsibilities, and resources all become affected by what is or isn’t within our hearts. When our heart is running on empty, but our hands remain full, we are heading for trouble. 

Dare To Be Trusting

Dare To Be Trusting

I have always felt that music was one of the most powerful mediums for conveying truth, expressing emotion and reaching people in a way nothing else can. This theory was proven to me early on in my career. When I was just venturing into the music world, I was a part of a group called Truth. We played nearly 300 dates a year (yes…300) and traveled all over. One night, though, we were back in Seattle at my home church. My friends and family were in the audience and it was a blessing to perform for them.